Proverbs 12:13-23

Truthful speech.
v.13 Transgression of the lips. The evil man is ensnared (or trapped) by his wicked talk, but a righteous man escapes trouble (by holding his tongue). Don’t get yourself in a bind by what you say. “Oh, what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive,” — Sir Walter Scott.
v.14 Good speech. The fruit of good speaking brings prosperity (good things) just as we would expect diligent work to also prosper us. If your conversation is wise and honoring to God, it will result in blessing.
v.15 Good listening. The way of a fool is to go along the path that seems right to him, even when good advice is offered. The wise will recognize and accept good advice.
v.16 Ignore an insult. The fool shows his opponent at once that he is injured (easily provoked), while the wise is more shrewd (silent) and ignores the insult. Prudence can hold back and not give the enemy the satisfaction of knowing you were hurt.
v.17 Truthful speaking. A true witness can be counted on to always speaks the truth on the witness stand. The false witness utters lies and deceits. The setting may be business dealings or court cases; in either case, always tell the truth.
v.18 Healing words. Rash words (reckless talk) pierce like a sword (wounds), but the words spoken by a wise man bring healing (because they are true, kind, and encouraging).
v.19 Truth outlasts lies. Truthful speech lasts forever, but lies last only for a moment. A lie will eventually be found out.
v.20 Plan peace. There is joy (inner contentment) for those who plan (advise) peace, but not for those who devise (plan) evil in their hearts.
v.21 Security of the righteous. The wicked get their fill of trouble (evil) but no harm (calamity) comes upon the righteous. The idea may be what they ultimately get in the end.
v.22 Speak truthfully. Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but he delights in the ones who speak truthfully.
v.23 Discretion. The prudent restrain themselves (use discretion in their speech), while the fool blurts out folly.

We are here taught the value of wisely using speech (verses the way of a fool). This includes times of silence contrasted with a babbling fool. Exercise discernment when speaking, words cannot be taken back. Truth brings healing and builds trusting relationships.

Read Proverbs 12:13-23